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Happiest Places in America

How happy are you? If not as happy as you'd like to be, maybe it's where you live. A new scientific study of 1 million Americans shows New Yorkers are the least happy folks in the country. (48th and 49th are CT and NJ.)

Who beats them? Here's the study. The top ten places:

  • Louisiana, Hawaii, Florida
  • Tennessee, Arizona, Mississippi
  • Montana, South Carolina, Alabama and Maine

California ranks near the bottom at 46th. Colorado is #21.

Would you be happier if you lived someplace else?

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    Being from Tennessee (5.00 / 1) (#1)
    by glennmcgahee on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 05:43:15 PM EST
    we don't mind if people call us redneck, backwards Hillbillies. If that what keeps them from coming here and "developing" our beautiful state, keep the insults coming.

    I think Tennessee is the best kept secret (5.00 / 1) (#38)
    by ruffian on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 08:31:24 PM EST
    there is. Too bad this study will call attention to it!

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    I could do Kentucky (none / 0) (#62)
    by Militarytracy on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 08:59:46 AM EST
    My aunt is in Nashville.  She moved there from CO for the same reasons that Jeralyn says that she could consider it.  She wants to move back now, but the economy stole her retirement so I guess she's planted there.  It's still pretty hot and humid for me.  I like some cold.

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    Man (none / 0) (#33)
    by Ga6thDem on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 07:35:10 PM EST
    it is a beautiful state for sure. I especially love eastern TN with the smokies, the most beautiful mountains in america imo.


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    I couldn't be very happy in a place (5.00 / 2) (#6)
    by andgarden on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:06:09 PM EST
    where I had to have a car.

    Urbanified (5.00 / 1) (#7)
    by Militarytracy on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:09:04 PM EST
    When was the last time you drove in (none / 0) (#37)
    by Inspector Gadget on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 08:26:54 PM EST
    the Phoenix area?

    Death toll on those roads average 3 a day. I'd hate to count how many vehicles I saw on their tops balancing the center guard rails of the freeways in the short 18 months I was there.

    Rarely....RARELY do a see more than a minor rear-ender in the Puget Sound area and we have horrible traffic.

    But, we are much, much happier than Phoenix if you take into consideration the night and day difference in customer service.


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    Horrible traffic (5.00 / 1) (#47)
    by gyrfalcon on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 11:00:52 PM EST
    equals fewer fatalities, actually.  I think most people would agree the Boston area has the worst traffic, bar none, because of the narrow, badly laid out, tangled roads and utter confusion and mess, plus too many people on the roads.  I think I read that Mass. has the highest accident rate in the country but the lowest fatality rate.

    LA has terrible traffic, too, but at least you know where you're going and where you're at.  Not so around Boston.

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    I always (none / 0) (#70)
    by CST on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 10:11:40 AM EST
    know where I'm going :)  I usually even know where I'm at.

    Except for a few years when the big dig kept changing everything.  It seemed like every time I came home from college the streets downtown were in a different place.  But now things have settled a bit.

    One thing I think living here has helped with is having a good sense of direction (or maybe having a good sense of direction has helped with living here).  Even if you don't know the roads, if you can keep a geographical map in your head, it'll usually work out.  Just drive in the general direction of where you're headed and you'll get there eventually.  Unless you're in East Boston.  Then you're screwed.

    I heard Pittsburgh is #2 in the country for "most confusing layout".  I never had much of a problem there either.  Although I still think the worst place for signs is NYC.  They have no advance signage.  By the time you see a sign for where you're going, it's too late, you've already passed it.

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    No matter where you go, there you are (5.00 / 9) (#8)
    by Ellie on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:09:58 PM EST
    I've been everywhere (or a lot of places anyway) and learned that if you're not happy in your own carcass, you probably won't be everywhere else.

    Bingo (5.00 / 2) (#48)
    by gyrfalcon on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 11:03:21 PM EST
    But it's also true that some carcases are naturally more comfortable in some environments than others.

    I'm a country girl who somehow got born and brought up in Manhattan and the Boston suburbs.  It took me to my late 50s to be able to finally break free and move to the country where I belong.  I can't tell you what a relief it is.

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    Im a native born New Yorker (5.00 / 1) (#9)
    by jondee on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:17:45 PM EST
    (I know, figures, right?) but I'll always remember the people I met in Tennessee for being the friendliest, sweet-souled folk -- strikingly so -- that I've met in any state.

    And also, if I may be indulged, I couldnt help noticing that Tennessee also seemed to have the highest percentage of pretty women of any state I've traveled through.

    Then there's the fact that Nashville (and Memphis) cats play clean as country water -- 'n wild as mountain dew..


    East Tennessee-- (5.00 / 1) (#11)
    by mollypitcher on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:24:30 PM EST
    The road signs there used to read: 'The three states of Tennessee.' I'll stake my claim to the eastern one, home to my family since 1792.

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    Weird (none / 0) (#44)
    by s5 on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 10:39:02 PM EST
    In my experience traveling the US, I found people in Tennessee to be the rudest of anywhere. Like the time when I arrived in a motel in Tennessee at 4am after driving all night, asking for a late check out (and being willing to pay!), only to have the motel manager banging on my door at 9 in the morning. It wasn't just that one guy, it was everyone I met and did business with, and I've had this confirmed from Tennessee natives who moved away.

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    Ehhh (5.00 / 1) (#14)
    by lilburro on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:30:39 PM EST
    who were they talking to?  Lots of poor red states in the top.  Glad Louisiana is all ship shape recovered from Katrina... >_>

    I'm happy where I am but (5.00 / 1) (#15)
    by Jeralyn on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:31:31 PM EST
    a lot of days I think I'd be happier if it didn't snow so much and weren't so cold.  (After 38 years in Colorado, you'd think I'd be used to it but I'm not.) On the other hand, it's the only thing I don't like about CO, and I do like that it's sunny 300 days a year and there's no bone-chilling cold like on the East coast where the wind and humidity make hats necessary so your ears don't freeze. And the roads are icy, not just snowy.

    So I guess I'm as happy here as I'd be anywhere, and no place is perfect. I'm actually kind of surprised Colorado is only #21.

    It is kind of strange... (none / 0) (#24)
    by MileHi Hawkeye on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:53:42 PM EST
    ...since most people choose to move here.  But I suppose, as with most communities made-up of transplants, there is a certain percent that miss "home".

    I think the cold/snow thing must be a by-product of the aging process.  Seems to bother me more and more every year.

    The other thing I don't like is sitting in traffic coming home/going to the mountains.  And TABOR.  And that we're nearly dead last in educational funding...

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    I always meet people here (none / 0) (#63)
    by Militarytracy on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 09:00:58 AM EST
    who have visited and just loved it.  Visiting is not living there though.

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    Kind of like me... (5.00 / 1) (#68)
    by MileHi Hawkeye on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 10:04:38 AM EST
    ...and the Pacific NW.  Jaw dropping beauty, large bodies of water and Seattle is a wonderful city, but I would have a real hard time living there.  

    I need my sun.  Any more than a couple days without it and I get real cranky.  

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    I need sun too (none / 0) (#71)
    by Militarytracy on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 10:13:33 AM EST
    I do have a little seasonal affective disorder in Colorado.  I don't have to deal with it here though, so when we move I'd like to stay in this latitude if possible.  I did do a bit of cross country skiing living in the West because the sunlight bouncing off the snow all day make me higher than a kite :)

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    Ideally... (none / 0) (#72)
    by MileHi Hawkeye on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 10:27:15 AM EST
    ...I'd love to have a place on the Oregon/Washington Coast for the Summers and a Winter home in Southern New Mexico.  Assuming that I didn't have to deal with pesky things like work and transplants.

     

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    I've lived all over the world (none / 0) (#40)
    by jimakaPPJ on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 09:04:48 PM EST
    but the best 17 was in Colorado. I hated to leave for the South but as you age the snow does become a problem unless you can find someone to remove it or else you move into an apartment complex.

    The former was impossible and the latter unacceptable..

    And I'm glad all you folks like Tennessee. It's my native state and we loved Yankees... and their money!!!

    In case I forget... Merry and happy to all those who love to disagree over things political!

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    Ugh! (none / 0) (#50)
    by gyrfalcon on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 11:13:57 PM EST
    How awful!  I can't even imagine dealing with the mess you must have had to deal with.  Yikes.

    I'm extremely grateful I live now on the side of a low ridge.  Even a couple years ago, when I got by my rain gauge, 18 inches of rain in the course of a few weeks, even my little dirt-floor cellar stayed dry as a bone.

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    Laissez les bon temps roulez... (5.00 / 1) (#17)
    by marcnj on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:33:47 PM EST
    Lived in LA until I was 18--any room with more than 2 cajuns is a party.  It may be the alcohol.

    As an honorary RCA (none / 0) (#41)
    by jimakaPPJ on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 09:05:59 PM EST
    let me say it is the booze.....and the crawdads!

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    Virginia seems to always be solidly in the middle (5.00 / 1) (#21)
    by cawaltz on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:44:05 PM EST
    of all these studies(healthiest, happiest, etc, etc). I'm in the appalachian region and wonder if they've ever done any studies on whether urban ,suburban and rural areas have marked differences despite being in the same state. My little burg seems fairly happy.

    I don't know if I'd be happier, but (5.00 / 1) (#22)
    by hollyfromca on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:49:01 PM EST
    If I could create a fantasy world (with pony!), I'd like to live someplace else for a year every now and then.  Tops on my list would be NYC, London, Paris, Montana, Vermont.  I grew up in Baltimore and do miss being able to get from Maine to Florida and all of the wonderful places in between.

    Look at it this way: (5.00 / 3) (#25)
    by scribe on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 07:02:46 PM EST
    When you cross the Piscataqua River bridge on I-95 from NH into Maine, the first rest stop is also the visitor/welcome center.  As you approach, there's a big sign
    "Welcome to Maine
    The way life ought to be."

    You get out of your car in the parking lot of the visitor center, and you note that the main drag of the interstate is shielded by trees and brush, and the parking lot is actually quiet, the quiet of woods.  You note the many mature white pines shading the visitor center and all the picnic benches, and then note that these pines have scented the air with their wonderful scent, and that you can't smell diesel stink.  Their needles cushion the ground.  Your dog leaps for joy and starts dancing in circles because she can walk on soft pine needles instead of concrete.

    The people smile and greet you warmly.

    You drive on, and come to any of the towns along the ocean.  They all have their rough edges and peeling paint, but also that classic New England seashore beauty.  People talk funny, sometimes.  You note the fishmongers at the docks selling live lobstah, fresh off the boat, for $3.99 a pound.  (That's cheaper than beef and only a quarter more than pork sausage, FWIW.)  

    You see recipes like this illustrated on the tv.  If it's good to eat, it's probably better if you add some lobster.

    Cross the street on foot, and traffic stops for you.  In Maine, it's the law, BTW.  Just so you know.

    When you cross into New Jersey, OTOH, the first thing you hit is a pothole.

    Don't get me wrong.  I love the vibe of NYC and Philly and cities in general.  I love the way a concentration of people in a great city yields art and music and creativity in all its magnificent varieties.  I love the way one can get lost in the crowd in a great city and the amazing eye-contact communication which goes on in the crowd walking along the sidewalk in NYC.  I love being able to walk to the store or the restaurant or the whatever.

    But I keep coming back to that sign.

     

    I can relate (5.00 / 2) (#51)
    by gyrfalcon on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 11:19:58 PM EST
    Maine seafood, the crabs, the shrimp, the lobster, are the best on the planet, IMHO.

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    All else being equal, yes (5.00 / 2) (#42)
    by ruffian on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 09:06:13 PM EST
    If I could move this job away from Florida, I would do it in a heartbeat. I've never been able to put the right place together with the right circumstances. I loved living in both Huntington Beach, California, and around Denver, but I was working too hard to enjoy it.  Long story - my fault, as I see it now. Harder to see it then when I was trying to make it, and excelling at a good job seemed very important.

    When I was contemplating moving to Florida to accept this job, which is a lot less stress than my other jobs, one of the questions I was trying to answer for myself was: how much does it matter where I live? I knew I would not like the landscape, weather, etc. of Florida as much as Colorado, but I was hoping it would not really matter that much. Turns out it matters a lot, to me anyway. In Colorado every time I stepped outside, even if was working so much that it was not that often, I could breath that thin dry air and look at those mountains and get a sense of beauty.  In California, yes, I had a 45 minute commute, and lived in a too-expensive rented apartment, but at the end of the day I could walk to the beach and pier and that ocean just took all that stress away.

    There is a lot of beauty in Florida also, but you have to go find it. You don't just get it automatically by stepping outside and looking west.  I have not figured out yet how to make myself happy here.

    Well, that explains it (5.00 / 1) (#52)
    by gyrfalcon on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 11:23:52 PM EST
    You've never struck me as a Floridian, and now I see that you're not.

    I think Florida's problem is that it's flat, so you can't really see very far away from the strip mall you happen to be driving past.  The good alternative would be to live near the water, or those wonderful, strange (to a Northerner) semi-tropical forests, what's left of them.

    Well, to me anyway, being somewhere where nature is matters a lot.

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    Where in FLA ruffian? (none / 0) (#64)
    by kdog on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 09:45:04 AM EST
    I really liked living in Pompano Beach, aside from missing the fam and friends in NY...I'm a big beach guy, gotta be near the ocean and salty air...that sh*t is good for ya.  My kind of people there too...lots of transients, drunks, dope fiends, degenerates.

    I'd walk out my door and be on the sand in a minute...dip in the ocean to wake and dip in the ocean before sleep...that was sweet.  Getting some lovin' was never easier either...the NY accent really seemed to charm those Florida girls:)

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    I wuv NY. (5.00 / 1) (#58)
    by lentinel on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 07:13:57 AM EST
    I love New York. By which I mean New York CIty.
    The rest of the State is a mysterious entity to me.
    Strange politics.
    Very strange politicians.

    But New York City lost a lot when it allowed Bloomberg to buy a third term. A total disregard of the citizenry, imo.

    NYC lost some of its charm... (none / 0) (#66)
    by kdog on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 09:51:13 AM EST
    when the Ghoul got elected...gritty exciting  Times Square turns into Disneyland.  The homeless run out of town.  And so many more cops and cameras...it feels like a prison colony sometimes.

    All that being said, the Big Apple still has its charms in spades...

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    Right (none / 0) (#75)
    by lentinel on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 01:23:55 PM EST
    about the Ghoul.
    A disaster.
    But, truth be told, things started seriously going downhill with Koch.


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    YES (none / 0) (#2)
    by Militarytracy on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 05:51:15 PM EST


    Living in Alabama (none / 0) (#3)
    by Militarytracy on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:00:34 PM EST
    I'm in my happy place a lot.  Maybe that's what those polled thought they were being asked.

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    I think (5.00 / 1) (#34)
    by Ga6thDem on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 07:36:02 PM EST
    it's the sunshine and magnolias that make people happy 'cause it certainly not the conservacrazies that run rampant.

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    I smell stuff around (none / 0) (#60)
    by Militarytracy on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 08:54:52 AM EST
    here at different times of year.  And I am a flower and flower smell freak.  If you are on the porch though in the evenings at different times of year different things are blooming and you smell it all night long in the breeze.  Then I run around the next day asking everyone I know who is from here what that smell is, what's the flower, what's blooming out there?  Nobody smells anything but me.

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    Win! (none / 0) (#5)
    by andgarden on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:05:32 PM EST
    Goes for Florida too (none / 0) (#39)
    by ruffian on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 08:33:35 PM EST
    They must have polled all the blissed out oldsters and college students - not the 13% unemployed among the working age folks, or the rest of us that have to deal with the rank idiocy.

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    People with prescription drug coverage :) (none / 0) (#61)
    by Militarytracy on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 08:55:28 AM EST
    love Hawaii; (none / 0) (#10)
    by mollypitcher on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:21:43 PM EST
    also loved So.Ca.

    But I have gotten used to where I am: a long drive would be 15 minutes

    We're #1 We're#1!!! (none / 0) (#12)
    by kdog on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:24:43 PM EST
    I like the NY Times spin from the linkage...

    More important, might contentment be overrated? Seriously, isn't restlessness, even outright discontent, often a catalyst for creativity?

    Or could the highest tobacco taxes in the nation be playing a role here? Yeah...That's the ticket:)

    I could be happy anywhere I think but being close to family and lifelong friends is huge...that's what I missed the most living far from home.

    Does this mean (5.00 / 1) (#19)
    by jondee on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:41:18 PM EST
    there's a chance the NYT might start coming up with something more creative than rubber-stamping wmd press releases and telling us the Madoffs of the world are just the markets way of adjusting itself?

    Those guys over there need to show us the creativity money. So to speak.

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    From your keyboard... (none / 0) (#26)
    by kdog on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 07:09:34 PM EST
    to the press room's monitors my friend.

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    lol (5.00 / 1) (#31)
    by jondee on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 07:31:02 PM EST
    Im starting to think the whole wanting to crawl out of your own skin while marinating in a Kafkaesqe pressure cooker as a spur to creativity is vastly overrated.

    More than anything it's the result of two thousand years of cake-yesterday-and-cake-tomorrow propaganda, promulgated by knaves.

    Drink cold and piss warm; for the earth, like a honeycomb, has all good things inside her.

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    There is something to that, though (none / 0) (#49)
    by gyrfalcon on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 11:10:07 PM EST
    You don't have a whole huge lot of creative juices in rural Vermont.  The energy mostly goes into physical things, like schlepping wood or cows or chicken guano or the kitchen garden.  When that's done, it's a genuine, visible, physical accomplishment and you can rest on your laurels until doing it all over again the next day.

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    SoCal is a mess (none / 0) (#16)
    by Dadler on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:31:52 PM EST
    If it weren't for Camp Pendelton, it would be one giant sprawl from the Mexican Border the the edge of the San Fernando Valley, if not beyond.

    Stay in Hawaii. A writer friend of mine moved to Kauai at the end of summer and says he hasn't written a word in anger since.

    OTOH, friends of mine (5.00 / 1) (#46)
    by gyrfalcon on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 10:55:54 PM EST
    born and bred northern New Englanders, decided to move to Hawaii a couple years ago, quit their jobs, sold their house and belongings, etc.  They fled back to Vermont in horror after only a couple of months.

    No offense, but to us Northerners, especially the countrified ones, the absence of spring is a really big deal.  Winter pretty much sucks, but man, you feel like you've really, truly earned and deserved that incredible outburst of bright new green.

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    Lancaster/Palmdale (none / 0) (#27)
    by Dadler on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 07:12:24 PM EST
    I know, it's like hell. They built so many tract homes, so many people bought them and went under, now it's like a dystopic edge-city. With tons of gang problems to boot. Awesome.

    My mom lives in Pasadena, in one of the older homes in the city actually -- 1885, I think. I actually love Pasadena almost as much as any area in metro LA.

    And Vegas, huh? For the dry heat? Or the hot tables? Or both?

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    Hawaii/Vegas (none / 0) (#32)
    by mollypitcher on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 07:34:37 PM EST
    I was told by a native Hawaiian that they were moving to Vegas to get jobs in the hospitality 'industry.'  That must have been 10 to 15 years ago.  We always went to Maui, staying near Napili (northwest part of the island).  I know those people were being squeezed by the cost of living 'in Paradise.'

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    Stay in Hawaii (none / 0) (#20)
    by hollyfromca on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 06:43:47 PM EST
    To me, the whole Southern California sprawl is hell on earth.  I mean what can you say about a place that has non-stop traffic radio.  And you have to drive everywhere, and everywhere is miles apart.  

    Northern California, on the other hand, is an easy place to live. If you like the outdoors, the opportunities are unlimited.

    I think if you spend your time in LA... (none / 0) (#28)
    by Dadler on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 07:17:41 PM EST
    ...entirely on the west side or near the ocean (save the little ghetto hanging on in Venice), i can see how someone could really love it. but i grew up in the dregs of the san gabriel valley, sucking air so thick you could easily see it a block away on any summer day. i remember second stage smog alerts, now a first stage gets bells and whistles. then again, back in the day, if we got a burn injury as kids, our folks still thought it was good to put butter on it. here, lemme treat that open wound with a little salted grease.

    i love and hate socal in the most cliched but true way.

    nocal, i agree, i've always wanted to pull up stakes and move there. someday.

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    Huntington Memorial (5.00 / 1) (#35)
    by mollypitcher on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 07:38:59 PM EST
    was the emergency destination for my burned toddler when we lived in Altadena.  They congratualated me because instead of putting butter on the little one's burn, my husband had put her in the tub under the cold water faucet. The hospital first aid?  Ice, piled high over the burn.

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    Y'all Come (5.00 / 1) (#43)
    by hollyfromca on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 09:56:40 PM EST
    We will welcome you with open arms.

    My elderly in-laws live in Venice in an OK neighborhood.  That's where they pretty much stay, which is wonderful in terms of climate.  But you have to drive everywhere, still.

    Yeah, it is a paradise in hell.  


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    You deserve to be in a place (none / 0) (#36)
    by jondee on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 07:57:00 PM EST
    that's good for your soul, Dadler.

    Plus, there's twenty writers that can give us that Dadler feeling in socal already.

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    Weather (none / 0) (#45)
    by s5 on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 10:42:25 PM EST
    I suspect good weather and local recreation are the unifying factors.

    I'm also not sure that "happiness" is the right ideal to strive for. I would be happy all the time living in Hawaii, but I would also lack that "itch" that motivates me to be creative and try new things.

    And seasons, I need four seasons (5.00 / 1) (#53)
    by Cream City on Tue Dec 22, 2009 at 11:43:54 PM EST
    and I could not do without fall color -- and hard as winters can be, they also can be beautiful . . . and they make us in the northland go NUTS when spring comes.  And we make the most of the summers, such as we get, with festivals and food and dancing and fireworks every weekend in my town.  And then it's autumn, lovely autumn color again that just stops me in my tracks sometimes, startled by the stunning hues of the sumac and so much else. . . .

    I have learned, from time away, that I also need to be near a large body of water, and lighthouses, which brought me back to be near the shores of my good Great Lakes.  There can be too many days with fog sometimes, but I love those days for hearing the foghorns on the huge ships in the harbor.  When I returned to the shoreline, after years inland, and saw my lake so large it looks like a sea, my kids remember well that I almost cried.

    And that reminded me of my mother's reaction when she went back home to the Pacific northwest and saw mountains again.  We each have our memories, and some of us are lucky to live amid them.  

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    Yes, yes, and yes (5.00 / 1) (#65)
    by CST on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 09:50:45 AM EST
    4 seasons, fall is the best, followed by spring, then summer, and even winter has it's perks (skiing, sledding, snowball fights anyone?).  I couldn't imagine living without them.

    I have also learned from time away that I need a large body of water (rivers don't qualify), and mountains all within reasonable driving distance.

    Plus, I need to live in a city, but be close enough to the country to "get away for a weekend".

    So here I am, stuck in the Northeast.  I guess there are a few other places that qualify, but it's also nice to be close to family.

    There are worse things.

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    I love Oregon, the whole Pac NW (none / 0) (#54)
    by caseyOR on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 12:14:16 AM EST
    for that matter. I suffered through a ghastly couple of years when work forced me to live in LA: bad air, bad traffic and that relentless sunshine. I was ecstatic to return to my beloved, if somewhat wet and rainy, Oregon.

    But, I grew up in central Illinois, where the world stretches all the way out to the horizon. And still, after more than three decades out here, I find myself startled when something- mountains, foothills- stops my vision. After a while I find that a trip to the coast and a walk on the beach and a good long time with my gaze turned to the ocean which ends at the horizon, is required to restore equilibrium.

    Fortunately for me, the ocean is only an hour away.

    Any place that nurtured (none / 0) (#59)
    by jondee on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 07:28:00 AM EST
    Gary Snyder and Kesey is good enough for me.

    The NW is a magnificent part of the country.

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    Go away, happy people! (none / 0) (#55)
    by FreakyBeaky on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 12:46:46 AM EST
    I'm perfectly happy being miserable right were I am. :-)

    "Happiness" is unidirectional (none / 0) (#56)
    by pluege on Wed Dec 23, 2009 at 06:04:25 AM EST
    Would you be happier if you lived someplace else?

    you can go from the country to the city, but not the reverse. Once infected with misery, always infected.